About

We are three Christian wives who want to encourage other Christian wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

Bonny Burns @strongwives and @oysterbed7

Bonny’s an upbeat Christian who began her writing career for low sexual interest wives at OysterBed7.  She blends scripture, science, and musings from her own journey to show that a marriage with mismatched sex drives can thrive. She is the author of, Unlock Your Libido: 52-week Sex Drive Transformation, Unlock Your Orgasm, and The Virgin Bride’s Wedding Night Guidebook. 

Bonny is also an APSATS partner coach candidate. APSATS stands for, “Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialist.” Bonny walks with wives, helping them understand the rupture that has happened in their marriage and helping them figure out how to find safety (relationally and physically, if necessary). As a partner herself, she completely gets it. Bonny’s coaching practice is Strong Wives, here you can read more about her experience, her credentials, learn how she can help you, and make an appointment.

J. Parker @hotholyhumorous

J. is Christian author and speaker who blogs at Hot, Holy & Humorous and uses a biblical perspective and a blunt sense of humor to foster godly sexuality. She has penned three books on sexual intimacy in marriage, including Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s Design,

Married for over 30 years, J. has fondly nicknamed her logical husband “Spock,” has two sons, and lives in the great state of Texas. She holds a master’s degree in counseling, yet it’s her personal story of redemption that fuels her passion for passion.

Chris Taylor @honeycombspice and @forgivenwife

Chris Taylor writes at The Forgiven Wife to encourage Christian women who want to work on the sexual intimacy in their marriages. After many years of a sexually difficult marriage, she and her husband Doug (aka Big Guy) have reclaimed the passion and intimacy God had intended for them all along.

Chris is also founder of Honeycomb & Spice, an online community for Christian wives seeking information, encouragement, and support as they pursue better sexual intimacy.

Chris was recently widowed and lives in Illinois, where she enjoys ministry, knitting, and supporting her three adult kids (and one too-cute grandchild!) in their lives.