We are going to discuss practical ways to help you discover fun and playfulness between you and your husband. We talk a lot about being lighthearted during sexual intimacy, and today we want to spark your creativity.
- What are some obstacles you can think of that would hinder playfulness in a married couple’s sexual relationship?
- What would you say to a friend who sees playfulness as a challenge to incorporate into her sexual relationship with her husband?
- What are some practical ideas to find light-heartedness or create playfulness during intimate moments?
- What does the Bible say about fun?
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From the Bible
What does God have to say about positions?
So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad. Then joy will accompany them in their toil all the days of the life God has given them under the sun. – Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NIV)
A merry heart does good, like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones.. – Proverbs 17:22 (NKJV)
A joyful heart makes a face cheerful, but a sad heart produces a broken spirit. – Proverbs 15:13 (CSB)
Resources
- Episode 25: Sex Is Funny – Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Do You Have Inside Jokes About Sex? (intimacyinmarriage.com) – guest post from J. Parker
- Lighten Up! And Laugh a Little about Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Does He Make You Laugh? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Is Joking about Sex Okay? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- What Euphemisms for Sex Do You Use? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Hugh Jackman Says His Life Motto Is ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ (usmagazine.com)
- Sex Games for Couples | Married Dance (affiliate link)
- Glow in the Dark Body Paint | Amazon (affiliate link)
- Fried Green Tomatoes “Saran Wrap Scene” (with actress Kathy Bates)
- Riding the Train | Awaken Love
- Give Your Husband a Sexy Surprise | The Forgiven Wife
- The Flirtation Experiment: Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage, by Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer
- Episode 34: Food and Sex