About this episode
We want you to understand that sex is for you too! This is an idea we discuss frequently in our episodes, but today it is our focus.
- Why do we even need to have this conversation?
- Why do so many women struggle with the idea that sex is for them?
- Is it okay for sex sometimes to be primarily for one spouse? If so, when and how would that work?
- What can you actually do to make sex for you as well?
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From the Bible
What does the Bible say about sex being for you too?
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you—
if you find my beloved,
what will you tell him?
Tell him I am faint with love.
– Song of Songs 5:18
Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside,
let us spend the night in the villages.
Let us go early to the vineyards
to see if the vines have budded,
if their blossoms have opened,
and if the pomegranates are in bloom—
there I will give you my love.
The mandrakes send out their fragrance,
and at our door is every delicacy,
both new and old,
that I have stored up for you, my beloved.
–Song of Songs 7:11-13
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. – Ephesians 5:31-32
Resources
- You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too – CalmHealthySexy
- Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husbands? – The Forgiven Wife
- What a Quickie Taught Us About Sexual Intimacy – The Forgiven Wife
- Why “10 Minutes and Lube” Is Horrible Advice – The Forgiven Wife
- How Not to Think About Sex – The Forgiven Wife
- Learn What You Like in Bed – The Forgiven Wife
- Learn to Embrace Your Sexuality – The Forgiven Wife
- Nurture Your Sexual Desire – Honeycomb & Spice
- Wives, Your Voice Matters (in the Bedroom & Beyond) – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Where Purity Culture Got It Wrong, Let’s Get It Right – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs – Wikipedia
- Sexual Desire and Arousal: The Nonlinear Model (Rosemary Basson) – ObG Project
- These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm – Hot, Holy & Humorous (orgasm gap)
- Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns (affiliate link)
- Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay
- Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
- Strong Wives Coaching Support with Bonny Burns
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