We welcome back former cohost and fan favorite Gaye Christmus to talk about fostering intimacy in your marriage during the summer months—both the challenges and the opportunities.
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From the Bible
It was you who set all the boundaries of the earth; you made both summer and winter. Psalm 74:17
Resources
- The Healthy Life Toolbox – Gaye Christmus’s active website
- 10 Ways to Actually Relax and Enjoy Your Summer Vacation | Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- 6 Simple Ways to Slow Down this Summer | Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- 7 Tips for Having Sex at the Parents’ House – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- 5 Ways “Hotel Sex” Can Boost Your Marriage | Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- 29 Fun and Sexy Things to Do with Your Spouse this Summer | Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- SEX and the BEACH • Bonny’s Oysterbed7
- Portable Outdoor Blanket with Waterproof/Sandproof Bottom | Amazon
- 10 Ways to Keep Cool While Heating It Up This Summer – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- What Do Children Need This Summer (It May Not Be What You Think!) | Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- Worship the Lord. Make Love with Your Spouse. – Intimacy in Marriage (Julie Sibert)
- Men think they’re doing their share of housework. They’re not. | The Week
- DREAMCARE Bamboo Sheets Set | Amazon
- How to Feel Sexy this Summer – and Why It’s Worth the Effort! | Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- Strong Wives – Bonny Burns’s website
- Honeycomb & Spice – Chris Taylor’s website
- Hot, Holy & Humorous – J. Parker’s website
- Gaye’s Lipstick: Cover Girl 325 | Amazon

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Our family has been home educating for 12 years. There have been some hard times concerning time together just as a couple. When our children were very little, grandparents would keep them but as they got older that was not available. My husband really struggles sometimes with the kids being around ALL the time. He loves the way we educate, but he feels the need for space very strongly sometimes. However, as kids have been getting into the 12+ ages, we can let them be in charge of the kitchen cleanup after supper and we can get a good 30 minutes or more to connect depending on how many dishes there are! Thank you so much for considering homeschooling families. I don’t have a lot of community and I definitely couldn’t talk about sex to the other moms I know.