About this episode
We hear from many wives who say they struggle with giving oral sex. In episode 42, we looked at the big picture of oral sex and discussed what God has to say, health concerns, and how a couple can work through their disagreement about oral sex. This episode is for wives who are ready to start giving their husbands oral sex or who want to get even better at it. We’re going to get into some specifics here. So, friends, pull yourself up close to our virtual kitchen table and listen up.
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From the Bible
Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Song of Songs 2:3
Resources
- Oral Sex: Learning to Bless and Learning to Be Blessed | The Forgiven Wife
- Is Giving a “Blow Job” Enjoyable for the Wife? – Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com)
- 5 Things You Should Know about Oral Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Get to Know His Penis | The Forgiven Wife
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- MANSCAPED® The Crop Preserver, Anti-Chafing Men’s Ball Deodorant, Male Care Hygiene Moisturizer
- Episode 10: Tending Your Garden
- Q&A with J: What about “Manscaping”? – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- MANSCAPED® Electric Groin Hair Trimmer, The Lawn Mower™
- Trustex Flavored Latex Oral Sex Condoms | Christian sex toy store | MarriedDance
- Sliquid Naturals Swirl Edible Lube | Christian sex toy store | MarriedDance
- JO H2O Flavored Lube – Strawberry & Many Others
- Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s Design by J. Parker (full chapter on Oral Sex)
- Do I Have To? | The Forgiven Wife
- Oral Sex Webinar
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I am one of those women who love to do this for my husband. I would NEVER have thought that I would be. At first, I was very self-conscious, but as I’ve learned how to do it well, learned what he likes, and gotten over myself, I now find it’s something that I WANT to do. It does a lot to arouse me, and I love hearing him and being able to tell the pleasure that he derives from it.
Most times, I just use it as part of foreplay, but sometimes I do actually “finish” him that way. It doesn’t bother me at all to swallow, either. I just see it as part of him, and I fully accept that as part of the bonding experience.
I do kneel between his legs as he lays flat on the bed. He’s got a bit of a gut, so that kind of blocks his view…which I am grateful for…lol. Knowing he can’t see me, makes me less self-conscious.
I also learned that coconut oil is great! It works great as a lube, it is all natural, it has good flavor, and it is antifungal and antibacterial. Using that helps a lot with the taste, smell, and sanitary issues that can be of concern.
You ladies rock!! Your husbands are lucky men.